"Harriet McCurdy Jacobucci"
OBITUARIES
Louis John Jacobucci
The Register, January 27, 2000
Louis John Jacobucci. 77. of South Dennis, who protected children in danger of abuse and neglect lor 25 years on Cape Cod, died Jan. I I at Eagle Pond Rehabilitation and Nursing Center alter a long illness.
He was born in Derby, Conn., where he graduated from high school.
He graduated from the University of Connecticut and received a master's degree from Columbia University School of Social Work.
During World War II, Mr. Jacobucci served in the Army as a radar mechanic, stationed in Shimya in the Aleutian Islands.
He was also an Army cook and baker.
A social work administrator for 37 years, he moved to the Cape in 1962 from Plainlield, N.J., to take charge of the Cape and Islands office of what was then called the Children's Protective Service, later known as the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children.
For 25 years, Mr. Jacobucci served as district director for Cape Cod and assistant regional director.
He retired in 1987.
He also was active in Barnstable housing issues and was elected in 1974 to the town's housing authority.
In addition, he was active in the Reverse Freedom Riders, the Cape Cod Community Council, now merged with United Way of Cape Cod.
He served on many boards of directors, including the
Cape Cod Mental Health Association, the
Cape Cod Homemaker Service, the
Community Action Committee of Cape Cod and the Massachusetts Conference of Social Welfare. He also was a teacher who published in his field. Mr. Jacobucci was an avid cat lover, birdwatcher and reader. He is survived by his wife,
Harriet McCurdy Jacobucci of Soulh Yarmouth; two sons.
Mark Jacobucci of Laguna Nigucl. Calif., and Andrew Jacobucci of Cambridge; two stepsons. Stephen Cameron of Georgetown, Del., and
Stanton Cameron of Baraboo Wis. two granddaughters, and three step-grandsons. Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association of Cape Cod, P.O. Box 953, Barnstable, MA 02630.
It Never Happened (A Memoir In Meme Form)
= CHAPTER ONE: "TEN YEARS AGO THIS VERY DAY"
"It was pretty much exactly ten years ago this very day -- "
“ . . . It never happened."
"Yes, it did. That was the day that my brother met me for lunch at a casual dining seafood restaurant in Wareham, Massachusetts."
"You are deluded."
"The reason I remember it so well is that -- "
"You lie."
"He played one of his l favorite funny, funny jokes on me. Which was to arrange a meeting and then totally stand me up. Which was super super funny. And then he would completely deny it. The first time he ever did this was in 1979. In Harvard Square."
"You fantasize."
"And I believe that this lunch we had together was the first initial swirl, in what was to be my final -- I was circling the drain. For the last time. I was a horrible person! I was the worst type of person a person could be. Also, I was completely out of my mind. My whole entire life up to this point had been just ...
It Never Happened (A Memoir In Meme Form)
= CHAPTER ONE: "TEN YEARS AGO THIS VERY DAY"
"It was pretty much exactly ten years ago this very day -- "
“ . . . It never happened."
"Yes, it did. That was the day that my brother met me for lunch at a casual dining seafood restaurant in Wareham, Massachusetts."
"You are deluded."
"The reason I remember it so well is that -- "
"You lie."
"He played one of his l favorite funny, funny jokes on me. Which was to arrange a meeting and then totally stand me up. Which was super super funny. And then he would completely deny it. The first time he ever did this was in 1979. In Harvard Square."
"You fantasize."
"And I believe that this lunch we had together was the first initial swirl, in what was to be my final -- I was circling the drain. For the last time. I was a horrible person! I was the worst type of person a person could be. Also, I was completely out of my mind. My whole entire life up to this point had been just one long, endless series of psychotic breaks, one after the other, for f -- "
"You are ...
So It Was Pretty Much Exactly Ten Years Ago This Very Day: A Short Story
“ . . . It never happened."
"Yes, it did. That was the day that my sister met me for lunch at a casual dining seafood restaurant in Wareham, Massachusetts."
"You are deluded."
"The reason I remember it so well is that -- "
"You lie."
"She played one of her l favorite funny tricks on me. Which was to arrange a meeting and then totally stand me up. Which was super super funny. And the she would completely deny it. The first time she ever did this was in 1979. In Harvard Square."
"You fantasize."
"And I believe that this lunch we had together was the first initial swirl, in what was to be my final -- I was circling the drain. For the last time. I was a horrible person! I was the worst type of person a person could be. Also, I was completely out of my mind. My whole entire life up to this point had been just one long, endless series of psychotic breaks, one after the other, for f -- "
"You are manipulative. What is it you really want?"
"And ...