"A family friend"
The Register, April 22, 1976
Homemaker-Home Health Aide Service Members Receive Recognition for Work
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Presentation of two Revere bowls in recognition of over 8000 hours as Homemaker-Home Health Aides was made by
Mrs. Harriet Hall,
Executive Director of the
Cape Cod Homemaker-
Home Health Aide Service, a
United Fund agency,
as the top awards presented to 18
Homemaker-Home Health Aides
from around the entire Cape area.
The recipients of the Revere bowls were
Mrs. Dorothy Curry of Buzzards Bay, and
Mrs. Esther Pope of Teaticket.
In making the presentations,
Mrs. Hall noted,
"Over 76 percent of this service is provided to older citizens largely in the form of personal care.
"The Aides," she said, "have become
a family friend
in the process of their duties.
Family members have been released from the hospital and other institutions quickly, and are keeping wage earning family members on the job and their
children in school."
Three Gold Pins for over 5000 hours service were presented to
Mrs. Alice Crovo of West Dennis,
Mrs. Klara Dwyer of Dennis, and
Mrs. Emily Lewis of Buzzards Bay.
Silver Pins for over 3000 hours of service were earned by
Mrs. Dorothy Bourne of Dennis, and
Mrs. Norma Elrick of Centerville.
Letters of Commendation for over 2000 hours of work wen given to
Mrs. Mary Adams of Barnstable,
Mrs. Myrtle Ruth Johnson of Osterville,
Mrs. Lois Bernard of Sandwich,
Mrs. Esther Lema of East Falmouth,
Mrs. Grace Libby of Cummaquid,
Mrs. Mary Murray and
Mrs. Hazel Patterson of West Yarmouth,
Mrs. Ruth Tillgren and
Ms. Maureen Rodgers of Hyannis,
Mrs. Norah Stukey of South Yarmouth, and
Mrs. Frances Weaver of Marstons Mills.
"What?!"
"I didn't say anything."
"How can you say such a thing?"
"I'm not going through this again."
"What do you mean?"
"All this -- denial. I'm done. I'm just going to say exactly what happened as I remember it."
"It never happened!"
"The reason I know it happened is that I renember it. I was eight years old. My brother was twelve years old. I was able to recover the date because I remember at some point in the week preceding the event, our father for some reason had told us, I'm going to be speaking at the Unitarian Church this Sunday at 11:00. It did not seem weird to me at the time, because he was always out of the house anyway. Plus all he used to when he was home was harangue me, so good."
"You lie."
"In fact, I remember thinking, it made sense that he would get something going on Sundays, because that was the only time he was ever even around anymore. Weekdays he was working, of course, and weeknights he was always at one of his many, many important community activities."
"You are delusional."
"Then, I found this article, and it all ...
"I have a thesis. My thesis is: In any woman's life, having children would have to be the most significant event. So, in my mother's story -- "
"Her family wasn't really any different from any of the other families."
"Yes."
"In what way?"
"She and her husband were both very active in community affairs. Both her children went to school."
"What else?"
"They were both boys?"
"Anything else?"
"No. That's it."
"So you said, that one way in which your mother's family wasn't really any different from any of the other families, was that she and her husband were both very active in community affairs. Can you tell me a little more about that?"
"Oh, sure. There was always something going on. Cub Scouts, she was like Den Mother of her older son's Cub Scout Pack. Pack 54. Plus the Comedy Club. Plus I'm pretty sure, she was involved in the kindergarten. She and her husband both. And politics. It was the Sixties."
"Just normal 60's Mom stuff."
"In any case, it's time to forget the past."
A Gift-Wrapped Copy of Penthouse Magazine
"My mother was not happy when family friends gave this to her husband as a birthday gift."
"In what way?"
"She walked out."
"Out of the party?"
"Yes."
"Where did she go?"
"She and her son walked down to the harbor to watch the fireworks. As they walked, her son said to her: I don't watch pornography. I don't even have a pornograph."
"Which . . . "
"Which is a totally normal thing to say."
"In a totally normal situation."
"Yes. She then said, Yes, that's old hat to you."
"Meaning . . . "
"Meaning nothing. It was just a random comment, that just happened to come up all by itself during the course of a totally normal conversation. For no reason. No reason at all."
"Good. Then what happened?"
"Nothing. Just normal stuff."
"So there were no consequences for anyone involved."
"Nobody was affected in any way. Ever."
"Well, It never happened. You're deluded. You lie."
"Yes. And in any case, it's time to forget the past and move on."
