“The women’s screams were chilling”
Same Script, Different Day
- A bleary-eyed Tuesday.
- Whether he realized it or not — the guess here is that he most certainly did — Chief William Penn was reading from a script nearly as old as gunpowder as he urged witnesses to yet another killing to come forward.
- “We are not getting nearly enough information for the number of folks that were there,” Penn said Monday. “Somebody lost their life, and we need a lot more cooperation.”
https://journalnow.com/news/local/two-things-same-script-different-day-a-reasonable-request-and-prudent-maintenance/article_6fb57a50-e360-11ed-867e-dbf8f97de643.html
The people, places and locations change, but the story is sadly the same. A fight breaks out between rival factions, someone goes to the gun and all hell breaks loose.
Bullets fly and someone — often someone who had nothing to do with the original dispute — falls dead.
In January, it was 12-year-old Enedy Penaloza Morales, a student at Philo-Hill Middle School, who was slain in Weston Park. A second person, a young adult, was wounded Jan. 15.
On Saturday night, in a picnic pavilion in Happy Hills Park, it was 21-year-old Beatrice Maxine Knights who wouldn’t go home again. Four others suffered non-life threatening gunshot wounds.
More than 200 attended the party before the gun fight broke out; police recovered more than 100 shell casings.
As tragic as one dead, four injured is — the toll fits the accepted definition of mass shooting, a daily occurrence in these United States - the casualty list could have been far worse.
And yet here we are again as the city’s top cop utters a variation of the same, tired old catch phrase: See something, say something.
It’s plain English but those four simple words — be they a directive, a request or a plea for divine intervention — are far too often lost in translation.
“Unfortunately, we haven’t had much cooperation from the community,” said Capt. Amy Gauldin of the Winston-Salem Police Department after Morales’ killing. “We know there are several people that saw what happened and potentially (have) evidence or have knowledge of what occurred and why it happened and can help solve that crime. We need those people to come forward.”
In both instances, investigators either can’t or won’t say what touched off fights that led to gunfire. In both instances, police brass either couldn’t or wouldn’t use the “G” word, either.
One witness to Saturday’s chaos — who cooperated fully by the way — wasn’t afraid to, though.
“A fight broke out, and 10 seconds after the fight, the shots started,” said Trevon Graham, 33. “I think rival gang members put their hands down and picked the guns up.”
And at a community gathering at Weston Park following Morales' death — another sad, familiar ritual — we heard echoes of the same theme.
The Rev. Robert Leak III of Winston-Salem, the president of the Coalition of Neighborhood Association Presidents, cited gangs, unemployment and poverty as leading factors.
“The homicides in Winston-Salem are a pandemic of violence,” Leak said. “The community has to come together and speak up.”
“See something, say something” seems applicable in several different ways.
Amalia's Story, Chapter Sixty-Two
= Amalia Angeloni Jacobucci
1000 Characters About My Mother #15:
"What happened after the Cub Scout Banquet?"
"That would have been in March of 1965 . . . "
"Here's something! First published April 1965 -- "
"Louis Jacobucci, Casework Treatment of the Neglectful Mother."
"Families in Society: The Journal of Contemporary Social Services, Volume 46, Issue 4."
"Oh, look! They had references!"
“The Protective Service Caseworker: How Does He Survive Job Pressures?”
“Use of Homemaker Service in Families That Neglect Their Children."
“The Team Approach in Protective Service.”
"Character Disorders in Parents of Delinquents."
"There's more."
"That's OK."
Presently . . .
"Loneliness and Isolation in Child Neglect."
"Dispositional Empathy in Neglectful Mothers and Mothers at High Risk for Child Physical Abuse."
"The Training of Neglectful and Unsatisfactory Mothers."
"The Socialization of Emotional Understanding: A Comparison of Neglectful and Nonneglectful Mothers and Their Children."
"In ...
"What?!"
"I didn't say anything."
"How can you say such a thing?"
"I'm not going through this again."
"What do you mean?"
"All this -- denial. I'm done. I'm just going to say exactly what happened as I remember it."
"It never happened!"
"The reason I know it happened is that I renember it. I was eight years old. My brother was twelve years old. I was able to recover the date because I remember at some point in the week preceding the event, our father for some reason had told us, I'm going to be speaking at the Unitarian Church this Sunday at 11:00. It did not seem weird to me at the time, because he was always out of the house anyway. Plus all he used to when he was home was harangue me, so good."
"You lie."
"In fact, I remember thinking, it made sense that he would get something going on Sundays, because that was the only time he was ever even around anymore. Weekdays he was working, of course, and weeknights he was always at one of his many, many important community activities."
"You are delusional."
"Then, I found this article, and it all ...
"I have a thesis. My thesis is: In any woman's life, having children would have to be the most significant event. So, in my mother's story -- "
"Her family wasn't really any different from any of the other families."
"Yes."
"In what way?"
"She and her husband were both very active in community affairs. Both her children went to school."
"What else?"
"They were both boys?"
"Anything else?"
"No. That's it."
"So you said, that one way in which your mother's family wasn't really any different from any of the other families, was that she and her husband were both very active in community affairs. Can you tell me a little more about that?"
"Oh, sure. There was always something going on. Cub Scouts, she was like Den Mother of her older son's Cub Scout Pack. Pack 54. Plus the Comedy Club. Plus I'm pretty sure, she was involved in the kindergarten. She and her husband both. And politics. It was the Sixties."
"Just normal 60's Mom stuff."
"In any case, it's time to forget the past."
